Working for free
I’m currently working with a friend of mine to build her brand without engaging in advertising or spending any money other than website hosting. So far, we’re doing well. But we’re both in it for different reasons - for her, she’d like to increase her brand awareness and convert that into leads. For me - I’d like to learn and her success is my success.
Mind you, I am doing this for her for free. I don’t want anything in return. Ok, maybe that’s a lie. What I actually want is to be known for helping people, to help tell the story of their brands. The reality is that I am still learning, and I will always be learning. I feel badly to ask for money in exchange for my learning. I know a lot of people would say that this is my time, but I actually think I am already getting paid.
The currency for me is DOING. It’s the only way to learn and grow. That is far more valuable to me than money. In saying that, I am in a very lucky position where I’m in a marriage where only one of us needs to work to keep up our lifestyle. I am very grateful for this opportunity, and I know my place. Maybe one day, I will feel confident enough to charge. However, that’s a long term goal.
Back in the day, when I was young and still trying to figure out what it is that I wanted to do with my life, I realised that web design was an avenue that I could go down and ask people for a shit tonne of money, because they didn’t exactly know what they were doing but I did. In no way did I cheat people out of money, but I certainly charged for websites and projects where now, looking back, I probably would have told my young self just to take on these jobs for nothing and then build up my business.
However, here I am. 32 years old and I’m starting again, which is fine. I have plenty of time to build. I wouldn’t have been able to build if I didn’t learn from mistakes of the past. I know that I certainly won’t be making these errors in the future.
This advice isn’t necessarily for young folk. It’s for any folk who is starting out, no matter where they are in their lives. The only way you will ever truly learn is to actually work on whatever it is that you want to get close to doing. Find a 9-5 that’s pretty close to it, so you’re earning money while you’re building. In your 5-9 is when you want to build whatever it is that you eventually want for yourself. If that means that you need to reach out to people you want to work for and with, the best thing you can do is bring them value by asking them to work with them for free. The biggest value you’re going to get is the hours on working on something pretty close to where you want to be.

